Monday, January 26, 2009

Inauguration

Sunday January 18, 2009
We were already in New Jersey from the Bat Mitzvah, so we drove to Philadelphia to see my cousins for the night. Since we had an extra ticket to the ball, my cousin decided to come with us. So she quickly dug up a dress from her mom's closet and packed a bag! We were supposed to stay in Baltimore, but ended up lucking out to get a room at the place our friends were staying, just outside of DC.

Monday January 19, 2009
We drove to Washington DC, checked into our hotel, and then headed to the Subway to pick up our tickets. My dad and I went to the Barbara Lee reception (Barbara Lee is the Congressional Representative for the East Bay Area of California, and the only one to vote against the war just after Sept 11). My mom and cousin went to go pick up the tickets and met us afterward. My dad and I waited in line to enter the building, and then waited in another line to get into the reception. Obviously, her party was pretty popular. Inside I saw my old high school P.E. teacher and counselor! I was surprised they remembered me actually.. Anyway, the party was too crowded and we didn't know anyone else there, so we left. We met my mom and cousin, then headed on the subway to meet a friend with more tickets and my parent's friend's son (with ball tickets). Rachel, my cousin, snapped this picture in one of the porto-potties next to the Capitol:

We were able to meet them both at the same subway stop, chatted a little, etc. Too bad neither of these two single guys are my age - I need someone in between! Ah well. We headed back to the hotel for drinks with my parent's friends, then off to bed!

Tuesday January 20, 2009 - Inauguration Day!
I tossed and turned, excited for the day, and finally got up at 5am. The plan was to get up at 5:30 and leave the hotel by 6am, but my mom called me at 5:20 and said that everyone was ready to go. So, I rushed to finish getting ready, and left for the lobby. We ended up getting on the shuttle at the originally planned time of 6am, so it worked out. We got to the metro station and because we were one of the first stops on the line, the train was fairly empty when we boarded. But in the next two stops, it filled to capacity. We had to tell people not to board because the doors wouldn't shut. As we got closer to the city, the train kept stopping midway through the tunnel because there were other trains at the station. The train in front of us had a sick passenger that delayed ours for 20 minutes! They told us that we would have to reverse the train, go all the way back out, and come back on a different line. But instead, we waited another 10 minutes and then were able to move forward. What should've been a 20 minute ride took an hour and a half!! They told us that the main metro station by the gates was closed because of traffic, but when we pulled into the station, they opened the doors and said it had just opened, and for all of us to get out! We raced through the empty station with no line and weren't even charged to get through the ticket turnstiles!

When we got up to the street level, we followed signs to our gate, then realized that we were passing our line. We followed the line down 2 blocks, around the corner and down another block, then snaked all around to the point of indecypherability. We joined the end of the line and waited for the gates to open at 8am. When they did, our single-file line became a mob. With no enforcement of the line, we were unsure what was happening. Then, we saw a bunch of people rush across the building's plaza to cut across the block. We looked at the people around us and paused for a moment - do we stay here and possibly not make it inside the gate before 11:30, or do we go for it with the rest of these people? We ran. 1/2 a block away from the gate, we turned into a mob, crunched with people, more than a block wide. We moved 1 step per minute, crushed against the people next to us. Here is a photo from my camera phone:


We finally got to security and I was pretty surprised how lenient they were. We only had to hold our ticket up (they did not inspect them), and when we got to the metal detectors, we unbuttoned our jackets, took things out of our pockets, and walked through. There were no X-Ray machines, just a guy looking at cameras and wallets, etc. And the metal detector beeped at me (I later learned that hand warmers set off the detectors). I got scared and walked back through, like I would do at an airport, but the guard told me I was fine, so beeping through, again, I walked out. Was it because I was blonde?! How's that for racial profiling. My dad held up the line forgetting about his cellphone and I was embarrassed. We got in just before 10am, I think, and walked to our section. We tried to find a place for short people to see, but it was a little hard with so many tall people standing in front of us! We backed up a bit and got a better view. Here is a photo taken from my cell phone:

And two of me in front of the Capitol. I didn't aim the first shot correctly:

Much better (I was bored at this point):

Anyway, so we learned that you can only take so many of the Capitol, standing in the same spot... By the time the ceremony started, my feet were aching and my back was stiff from the cold. We couldn't see much of the jumbo screens, but I could tell when the motorcade, Obama or his family was on, because the crowd went nuts! They started annoucing the past presidents. Carter got cheers, Clinton got tremendous applause, and (they muted this on TV) G.W. Bush got booed, loudly. I saw people shake their shoes, and even one guy toss his shoe into the crowd! It was pretty awful. The guy next to me started singing, "Na Na Na Na, Hey Hey Hey, Goooodbyye..." By the 2nd line everyone around us was singing, and by the 2nd verse, the entire crowd was singing. We petered out, but heard echoes of it going all the way down the National Mall! Anyway, we could hear Biden's oath very clearly, but when it came time for Barack, I was so disappointed that I could barely hear anything. We didn't even know when it was over, but we cheered anyway. I watched it later to see his stumble. The 21-Gun salute scared everyone around and it took a few booms before we realized they were not fireworks. His speech was great, and then as soon as it was over, we started heading for the exit. I knew that we needed to get to the front of the subway line. But, they didn't open the gates back up until after the ceremony was totally over. I sang the National Anthem with the other 1.8 million people. When we finally did get out, we headed for the subway further away. We saw Bush's helicopter go overhead. There was a line wrapped around the block for it, unmoving. So, despite our bodies, we trudged on to the next metro station another several blocks. But this would preempt the rail-line and ensure us a spot. It worked and we got right on a train and sat into the seat. We napped until our stop on the other side of town and got back to our hotel just as the Inaugural Luncheon was ending.

We got ready for the balls while watching the parade on TV and wondered when Barack and Michelle were going to have time to change! We took a taxi to the ball, but here are some photos in the hotel lobby. Here is my cousin Rachel and Me:

My mom and dad:

On the way, our taxi stopped at a light (I think this was my favorite part of the trip, because it was the least expected!), and suddenly tons of police motorcycles drive by. "Do you think this is the motorcade?" I joked.. And sure enough, then Obama's strech Cadillac drove by! I cheered and screamed in the taxi and my mom reminded me that no one could hear me, but I didn't care!
The taxi wasn't able to get near the Convention Center, so we had them drop us off and walked in. Unfortunately, we were on the wrong side of the building, so we had to walk around the block, in freezing cold and my shoes were already hurting!

More blah security to get in, and then inside the Western Ball we saw this:


Here is an idea of how big the whole thing was, and this is only 1/3 of it:
At the other end, was a giant stage with a golden archway:
We walked around, got some drinks, and then headed toward the stage, because space was filling up fast. Obama must be coming by soon, we thought! Here's a photo of me, my dad, my mom, and Rachel.

And here's one of my mom, our friend Karen, and me

We waited, and waited, and waited. Things constantly gave us hope, increase of Secret Service, movement of flags on stage, change of lighting, etc. Finally the band came out and then our main concert - Marc Anthony! After being on me feet for 20 hours already, I was crashing fast. I even sat down because I was so bored with the Latin singer. His wife, J. Lo, came out and sang a duet with him, then the music stopped. And we waited some more... We kept hearing from people around us that Obama had just left such and such a ball, so we kept hoping he was on his way.

Finally, Joe Biden and Jill Biden came out. Joe made a lackluster speech about the crowd earlier in the day, and then they did their dance.

We waited another 20-30 minutes, and FINALLY, around midnight, Obama came out with Michelle. I was so happy to see her in white. It seemed very appropriate since the whole thing felt like America's wedding. I fought on my tip-toes for camera time. Here's a couple shots of their inaugural dance:



Getting home was the hard part. We stuck around and used up our drink tickets, then headed to the coat check, leaving as our ball was ending, at 1am. We went out to the street (at this point I could barely walk), and tried to hail a taxi. Every taxi was full and no one stopped for us. Those that did stop found out we were going out past city limits and refused to take our business. We walked to a Hotel and stood with others in the lobby. Everyone seemed to be having the same problem. We tried to decide what to do, but by this time the wind was picking up and it was bitter cold outside! At 1:30am, we decided to try to walk to the metro (5 blocks away) and catch a subway, and make 2 transfers all before they stopped running at 2am. It seemed impossible and I was getting scared. Just as we started walking in the direction of the metro, a van pulled up and my cousin hailed him, promised him money to take us to our hotel. Other couples piled in, whose stops were on the way. He charged everyone a pretty nice sum and made off pretty big from all of us, but we were all just happy not to be stranded!

Wednesday January 21, 2009
We woke up, ate breakfast and packed up. I emptied my purse from the ball and quickly realized that I had lost my camera's memory stick with all of the ceremony photos. (This is why all of the photos from the ceremony were taken with my camera, and why I have much more from the Ball)! I was pretty angry, but knew it was gone for good. We drove back to Philadelphia, met my aunt for lunch near the airport and caught a long flight back to California. End.

Final Note
I think Jan 20th was one of the hardest things I've ever done. Just to endure the amount of standing and cold, etc. Was it worth it? Hell yes. Would I ever do it again? Probably not in this lifetime. So, I'm glad that I did it for My President, My BO.

Bat Mitzvah!

Friday January 16, 2009
Woke up at 5am, took the shuttle to the airport, and flew to Philadelphia, PA. I arrived at 5pm, rented a car, and drove straight to New Jersey. When I got there, I met up with my aunt and uncle. We quickly discovered that New Providence is one of TWO dry towns in NJ, and the only liquor store was about to close, so I rushed off to buy some wine, then picked my parents up from the Synagogue.

Saturday January 17, 2009
Ate breakfast and got ready to go to the Synagogue. Took family photos before the ceremony. Here are the twins, Allison & Joanna:

Here is my family with the girls (From L to R: My mom aka Teresa, my dad aka Grandpa, Allison, Joanna, and Me):

Here is the WHOLE family... I'll try to explain relationships as best I can (Top Row: Peter 2 (my brother, Twin's dad), Jenny (my sister, Twin's aunt), Jesus (Jenny's boyfriend), Jeanette (Twin's Grandma on their mom's side), Fred (Twin's Grandpa on their mom's side), Ed (Twin's Uncle), Lisa (Twin's mom). Bottom Row: Teresa (my mom, Twin's step-grandma), Peter (my dad, Twin's grandpa on dad's side), Me (Twin's aunt), Allison (Twin), Joanna (Twin), Lois (Twin's grandma on their dad's side, my dad's ex-wife).

The ceremony was beautiful, and I am really proud of the girls. They did a great job! I think my favorite part is when their parents got to say some words to them, in front of everyone about how proud they are of them, and be able to tell them what they see in each of them. It made me cry. Then, the big party was great and they had dancers and a smoothie bar all kinds of stuff. Having been on the kid side before, I really appreciated the space that was left for the adults and the separation, but the DJ did a good job of including everyone. From an events standpoint, I have never seen 1/2 of the party be banquet tables with buffet and 1/2 round tables, served food, but it ended up being perfect!

After the party, we went back to the hotel to change clothes, then went over to the Twin's house and watched them open presents. Lots of jewelry and LOTS of money. I don't think I've ever seen so much cash or checks! I gave them Star of David necklaces from Tiffany's and was very nervous that they would get those from other people, but they ended up being the only Star of Davids so I was relieved, and I think they liked them! Yay

Friday, January 02, 2009

Deer Valley

Friday December 26, 2008
2 hours before we left, I fell on the stairs and twisted my ankle pretty badly. I could walk on it, so I thought it was fine. We left Oakland at 9pm, got to Salt Lake City around midnight and went straight to the hotel. My ankle was pretty swollen from walking on it so much, so I iced it down.

Saturday December 27, 2008
I was limping on my ankle, so no skiing for me today. My dad went out on the slopes, and my mom and I walked around in downtown Park City. Waited for the bus for a LONG time and almost froze, but made it back to the hotel. We ate dinner at an Italian place nearby. It was OK.

Sunday December 28, 2008
My dad and I walked over the Stein Eriksen Lodge to check it out and were pretty unimpressed. Here's the front of the Stein Eriksen:

My ankle was feeling better, so we decided to ski for a bit. Found a run called Little Kate, and tried to have my mom take pictures, but they came out blurry.

After a few runs, my mom and I were both feeling depressed, so we decided to call it a day. We ate at Jean Louis, supposedly French, but we started noticing patterns on all of the local menus (namely: Wedge Salad, Osso Bucco, Fondue, etc).

Monday December 29, 2008
We woke up late and decided not to ski because it looked pretty cold outside. I don't really remember what we did. I think just walked around and then came back for Cheese Fondue. We went to dinner at a local cafe. After, we decided to go barhopping downtown. We met a nice gay guy from San Deigo who shared our distaste for the generic menus. Here's a photo of downtown Park City:

Tuesday December 30, 2008
We decided to wake up early and get in some good skiing. The day was beautiful - and we skied quite a bit. Here are some photos of the view from the top of the Mountain:

I don't know who this woman is, she wouldn't get out of my picture, so I decided to take it anyway:

Here's my mom and dad, halfway down Tycoon with the beautiful view:

I ditched my parents and got a better picture of my run, then met them for lunch and back up for a couple runs. Here's my run:

Under it, it says More Difficult. Haha Ain't that the truth! The run was a little icy and bumpy. I almost fell once, but overall, it was short and sweet. My mom got a manicure/pedicure and I got a mini facial in the spa across the street from our hotel. We had dinner reservations at the River Horse, supposedly the best restaurant, but since the reservations were late, we went downtown for drinks beforehand. We met a nice, big family from Missouri with some cousins my age. Then dinner, which they tried to stuff us into a bar table, but after we complained, they accommodated us to a booth. The food was excellent, then we went back to the bar for live entertainment, which now had a cover charge. We almost got stuck downtown because our hotel's shuttle driver was off duty and we missed the last bus. But, we got a taxi ride instead.

Wednesday December 31, 2008
Woke up moderately early and skied for a while. Again, it was a gorgeous day and the slopes were perfect. I split from my parents again and decided to try a Black Diamond (Stein's Way), but was severely disappointed that, like all of the Intermediates, it was pretty easy. I went in early and my mom and I tried to have lunch at our hotel (it's the most popular place on the hill). The service was so slow that they did not charge us for lunch. My mom did a few last runs on her own, then we went to the hot tub, and relaxed before dinner. We had a very late dinner at the Stein Eriksen, which was more show than quality. The other people around were fairly tacky. One guy, with his daughter and trophy wife, called the black truffle shavings on his steak "roasted coconut"!! At least if you are going to have that much money, you should be sophisticated enough to know what truffles are! It makes me sick. Dessert came and we had to rush out for the count-down. Mr. Stein Eriksen sang a Norwegian ballad, then we counted down the new year. They had fireworks right off the back deck, and this was the closest fireworks show I've ever seen. They were literally RIGHT above our heads, raining down on us. A few exploded on the ground and everyone screamed expecting the trees to ignite. I couldn't tell if they were cheers or screams. There was dancing inside, but most people were coupled up, so it was pretty lame. My mom and I realized this was our one and only opportunity to say that we had kissed Mr. Stein Eriksen, so we dared each other to go up and wish him a happy new year. She made me go first, so I kissed him on the cheek. He was a little shocked. Then my mom chickened out and I'm not going to let her live it down for a while. Here is Olympic Gold Medalist Stein Eriksen in his prime:
He did NOT look like this now! This photo was taken over 50 years ago, so add another 50+ years, and THAT'S what I kissed. Yuck. We walked back to our hotel and fell asleep before California entered 2009!

Thursday January 1, 2009
Our original plan was to leave on the 31st, so we could all spend New Year's Eve with our respective friends. My plan had been to stop in Vegas for Cirque's Love show, but seeing as how our worlds fell apart over the last few months, we decided to stay until after New Year's. We ended up catching an earlier flight, packed up and headed to the airport. We were home by 4pm, so we ate dinner here and caught a movie.

Overall, we loved skiing in Deer Valley - all runs are intermediate level, so there is no fear to get lost and stuck on a run you can't do. The service all over Park City and Deer Valley was superb! And, we loved staying at the Goldener Hirsch. It was walking distance to the base of the lift (we didn't even have to cross a street!!) and the hotel was quaint and beautiful. Here are some pictures of our hotel room:
Here's a picture of the outside of the Goldener Hirsch (at night):

Thursday, January 01, 2009

2009. A new year, new beginnings. It doesn't feel so new. I am quickly brought back to memories of last year. The pain is still there, still fresh. I am still heartbroken, still grieving, still more stressed than I have ever been. How long will it take? Will 2009 be a year wasted, stuck in the past? A resolution to get over it is naive and impossible. If one could will it to go away, there wouldn't be so many cliche phrases about time. But time feels like too much to ask for right now.

How many more times do I have to relive the horrors? Are things ever going to stop reminding me of what I'm missing?